Protecting your baby’s teeth from decay starts as soon as their first tooth erupts through their gums. The upper front row is the most susceptible to problems, but any of their teeth are vulnerable. There are several things you can do to keep decay at bay and to begin making oral care fun for them. Here are some tried-and-true tips direct from moms who have been there, done that – some more than once!
After each feeding, wipe your baby’s gums with a clean gauze pad or washcloth. Once teeth appear, brush them daily with a soft-bristle toothbrush. Do not use toothpaste, because your baby doesn’t know how to spit yet. Water is sufficient. Many moms recommend accustoming your baby to the toothbrush by allowing him to hold and play with it, as well as to chew on it. Any safe strategy you can find that makes the toothbrush fun—or at least tolerable—is worth a try.
“Kyra is only 14 months but has had teeth from 4 months. She was exclusively breastfed until 6 months, so we didn’t really worry about her teeth at all, but when she started on solids, we realized we had to start. It was impossible to get a 6-month-old to ‘brush’ her teeth, so we just gave her the toothbrush to ‘chew’ on. ” – Luschka, of Diary of a First Child
Maintain your own oral health. Like any other disease,
tooth decay is contagious. If you have a cavity or mouth infection, you can easily pass it on to your baby by sharing cups, straws, spoons or even from putting their pacifier in your mouth. Keep your own mouth healthy and don’t share these items with your baby to minimize the chances of transmission. Your baby has a higher chance of tooth decay, otherwise known as nursing caries, if you supplement with formula or use it exclusively. This is because formula contains extra sugar in the form of lactose. To help prevent tooth decay from formula, don’t give a bottle just before bed. Allowing some time between feeding and sleep allows your baby’s saliva to clear the milk from their mouth.
Don’t dip your baby’s pacifier in sugar or honey. Similarly, avoid sweet juices and candy, particularly right before sleep.
Pacifiers and bottle nipples can contain bacteria that lead to tooth decay, so try to discourage their use. One way to start this process is to take them away as soon as your baby is in bed. If at all possible, stop bottle-feeding after your baby is a year old.
The Teething Toddler – Maintaining Healthy New Teeth and Sanity
Ah, toddlerhood! That time of asserting independence and testing limits, of astounding learning and development in leaps and bounds. Whether it’s dressing, eating or playing, your toddler is becoming their own person, and they want things done their way.
How to Brush
Squeeze a pea-sized amount of toothpaste onto a soft-bristled brush
Scrub the teeth gently with small, circular movements
Don’t forget to brush the tongue!
Brush for 2 minutes, or divide the mouth into smaller segments
How do you allow your toddler to test their autonomy while still ensuring that they continues to develop the essential oral health habits that will protect their teeth for a lifetime?
By age 2 or 3, the last baby tooth will have arrived, with the exception of 6-year molars. Brushing and flossing daily become vitally important at this age, especially since most children eat an abundance of
sugary foods. Here are some mom-tested strategies that can help you and your toddler incorporate oral health into your routine.
Make brushing and flossing into a game. Sing a tooth-brushing song as you help your child brush her teeth. Need some ideas?
Find tooth-brushing songs here. Got any to add? Leave us a comment! They may want to do it themselves, so don’t discourage their motivation. Give your child the brush and let them go to town. Now that you have validated your child’s desires, they may be more willing to let you help. Let your toddler look in the mirror to see if there’s anything “yucky” in their teeth.
“I brush her teeth twice a day, but that’s about the extent of her dental care right now as she is only 17 months old. I let her hold the toothbrush after I brush her teeth so she can feel like she is doing it herself (she loves that!). ” – Mrs. Foreste, of As the Forest[e] Grows
Get a toothbrush that plays a tune or flashes for the 2 minutes they should be brushing. For toddlers, 2 minutes can seem like an eternity, so any songs, games or gimmicks that you can come up with will help make brushing go faster. They even have
apps that include these features.
“I had Parker pick out his own electric toothbrush – Thomas the Train. We use “Toy Story” toothpaste, which he loves. We all brush our teeth together at night and have lots of fun with it. We keep it positive. If a little extra encouragement is needed, we remind him that he gets a “smiley” on his chart for brushing his teeth. I think just always setting that example early on and modeling the behavior has helped the most… If anything is ever taken to bed or left in the room at night, it should only be water! Don’t create any bad habits of juice or milk after teeth brushing… At the early age of 2, it really is mostly about us, as parents, fostering good habits and modeling the right behaviors. ” – Kristy, of Pampers and Pinot
Your local supermarket will have a wide variety of children’s toothbrushes, some battery-operated, that can make brushing more interesting. You’ll see a full range of characters from television and fairy tales on these toothbrushes, and this can be very motivating to some children.
Brush your teeth while your child brushes thiers. Make it into a backward race in which the winner is the one who brushes for the longest.
“Be a good model! When you brush your teeth, bring your child(ren) into the bathroom with you, give him/her a toothbrush and toothpaste, and let them imitate you. Show them the proper movements, and allow them to play and explore brushing their teeth with the toothbrush. Allow your little one to pick out a toothbrush that has a favorite character on it, which will make it seem more like a game than a chore… In addition, we are big water-drinkers! We have not introduced juice or soda to her [16-month-old], only breast milk, water and now soymilk. ” – Tana, of Tiny Green Mom
If your child doesn’t yet understand the concept of spitting, turn it into a game. Give them a cup or bottle of water and go outside to explain the process. Then set up a target and see who can spit farther! Later, you can take turns aiming for the “target” in the sink – the drain. Once they have mastered spitting water, you can begin to associate this new concept with spitting toothpaste into the sink after brushing. Be sure to explain that spitting is only appropriate in certain situations!
One of the questions most asked by parents is,
“When should I take my child to the dentist for the first time?” According to recommendations by the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, the American Dental Association and the Academy of General Dentistry, the ideal time is when the child is 1 year old. This gives the dentist the opportunity to observe the development of your toddler’s mouth and to notice issues before they develop into major problems. If necessary, recommendations can be made about tooth care, thumb-sucking, pacifier use and diet. This also allows the child to become used to going to the dentist at an early age.
Another major parental concern is how to help a child overcome their
fear of going to the dentist. In many cases, your child’s hesitancy is directly related to your own fears of seeing the dentist. Projecting an air of matter-of-fact calm can be very important. Again, starting early may help prevent any fear, as well as speaking of dental checkups in a wholly positive light.
“From the time the kids’ teeth come in, I make sure they get regular cleanings. In our experience, the first few visits to the dentist’s office are devoted more to education than they are to actually cleaning. The kids get familiar with the equipment and get guidance and instruction from the dentist and/or his assistants, and it’s a real learning experience. Then I can remind them to use those new skills when we brush their teeth at home. ” – Rita, of Fighting off Frumpy
If you’re still concerned that your child might find the dental office intimidating, you can also look for a
pediatric dentist. These dentists specialize in the care of children. Everything from the décor of the office to the terminology to the techniques they use-and eevn how the post-visit prizes are designed. These can all help your child’s relaxation and can ease their mind.
Don’t wait until problems arise to take your child to the dentist. Make your first few visits pleasant and not treatment-oriented. You will help your child see going to the dentist as positive or neutral at the very least. To further help your child, let them bring a favorite toy to distract them and don’t hesitate to use appropriate rewards for a job well done. Consider talking to your child in advance about what they would like as a reward for a good dental visit. Stickers, an outing or additional television time are just a few possibilities.
Perhaps most important, don’t forget to schedule your next visit. No matter how crazy your life may become, visiting the dentist twice a year is one of the most important ways you can promote your child’s health and well-being.
Baby Teeth – Cleaning the Teeth They Will Lose
It’s tempting to minimize the importance of oral care for kids who still have their baby teeth. After all, they will just fall out anyway, right?
This myth may be one of the reasons that tooth decay is taking on epidemic proportions in our country today. According to the Pew Center on the States, tooth decay among children aged 2-5 increased by 15% between 1994 and 2004. Even more ominously, the
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention report that tooth decay in children has risen by 20% in the past 8 years. The CDC also reports that only 48% of children entering kindergarten have seen a dentist within the past year.
“Tater Tot is pretty concerned about not having cavities, so he’s pretty receptive to the whole dental health routine. Every now and then he’ll balk at brushing his teeth, but then I just remind him that not brushing can lead to cavities, and he usually comes around. ” – Marian, of Tater Tales
Tooth decay is 7 times more common than hay fever and 5 times more common than asthma, according to the Academy of General Dentistry. We cover our coughs and wash our hands after using the restroom, but what about brushing and flossing our teeth? We typically don’t even put them in the same category. Even if cavities occur in baby teeth that will soon fall out, they can have lifelong negative effects on the permanent teeth developing beneath the surface. For that reason, postponing dental care is rarely a good idea.
“My kids are 5, 3 and 1, so I’ve got to make it fun in order for them to sit still long enough to brush thoroughly. There’s a song on one of their favorite shows that says something about “tiny ugly germs.” I sing my own little song about cavities and plaque set to its tune, and the kids are so entranced with watching me act silly while they brush that they do a pretty good job! Also, their dentist gave them a little sand timer, and they like to brush until the sand runs out. Either way, a fun distraction makes for better brushing at our house… Make it an unchangeable part of your daily schedule. When it’s always right before bed, or the last thing they do before leaving for school, it becomes a routine. ” – Rita, of Fighting off Frumpy
Having an established relationship with a dental practice can be vitally important. Accidents happen; children often fall and could knock out a tooth or otherwise injure their mouths. A hospital emergency room will only stabilize your child and give them something for the pain, with the recommendation that you make an appointment with a dentist as soon as possible. By contrast, if your child is already a patient at a pediatric practive, or other dental practice, you can usually access thorough
emergency dental care on the same day.
Since children are prone to falling and other accidents, many moms wonder what to do if their child injures their teeth. While having your dentist’s office on speed dial might ease your mind, rest assured that you can handle many emergencies on your own. Depending on the injury, you can do several things to alleviate your child’s discomfort and optimize the chances for a good prognosis. Keep this checklist on hand to determine if there’s something you can do in the meantime:
baby tooth (that’s not already loose) is completely knocked out from the socket, control the bleeding with firm pressure. Give over-the-counter pain medication if needed. Depending on the age of your child, give your dentist a quick call to see if the tooth should be replaced. If a tooth is hit but doesn’t come out and the injured tooth has turned gray or brown, it probably will not require treatment. However, it is more susceptible to infection, even 6 months to a year after the injury. If you begin to see a pimple on the gum above the tooth, it’s a sign that an infection is starting. In this case, call your dentist and explain what’s happening. Make an appointment for X-rays and give over-the-counter pain medications as needed.
If your child’s tooth has been hit but is not loose, there might be discoloration or bleeding along the gum line and soreness for 1-3 days. This injury should heal nicely without a trip to the dentist. Give over-the-counter pain medication as needed and contact the dentist if it doesn’t get better after a few days.
If a tooth is hit and loose, it may wiggle back and forth but remain in the proper position. There is often discoloration and bleeding along the gum line. Generally, the tooth will tighten back up within 1-2 weeks. Control bleeding with pressure from a cloth and give over-the-counter pain medication as needed. Minimize movement of the tooth and make sure your child can close their mouth properly. Avoid hard or crunchy food in the meantime to keep from knocking the tooth out of position while it heals.
If the tooth is knocked out of position, you will notice bleeding and bruising of the gum as well as the fact that the tooth is misaligned. The tooth may or may not be loose. Immediately after the injury, try to gently and firmly return the tooth to its proper position with your fingers. Use pressure from a cloth to control bleeding and give over-the-counter medications as needed. Your child will feel pain for 1-2 weeks. Make an appointment with the dentist to determine if the root has been damaged.
If their tooth is hit and broken, it will look chipped, and your child will feel sensitivity to heat and cold. Bleeding from the inside of the tooth is a sign that the tooth is fractured and the nerve is damaged. In these cases, prognosis for the tooth is poor. Limit your child’s exposure to hot and cold food and drinks, offer a soft diet and treat with over-the-counter medications until you can receive an evaluation as soon as possible.
If your child knocked out one of their
permanent teeth, time is of the essence. You should see a dentist immediately, since they may be able to save the tooth and help you avoid costly dental work later. Locate the tooth and do not handle it unnecessarily, holding it by the crown not the root. Rinse the tooth and put it back in the socket, if possible. If you can’t, put the tooth in milk or a wet cloth. If the tooth is fractured, bring the pieces to your dentist’s office. If your child is old enough, have them carry the tooth in their mouth, since saliva will help to protect the tooth.
As a parent, you have many tools available to help alleviate your child’s pain after a mouth injury: ice to reduce swelling, a clean cloth to apply pressure and plenty of TLC for emotional reassurance. But keep this tip in mind: If your child experiences uncontrolled or prolonged bleeding or discomfort, seek emergency services immediately.
Losing Teeth – Caring for Teeth That are Falling Out
Somewhere around the age of 6 or 7, your child will lose their first tooth, beginning a process in which all of their primary teeth loosen and fall out to make room for the permanent ones. Don’t worry if they lose their first tooth a year or so earlier or later; this is normal. Most kids lose their teeth in the order in which they grew in: first their 2 lower front teeth, then their 2 upper front teeth, lateral incisors, first molars, canines and second molars. The prospect of losing teeth can be an exciting one for many children, but others can become nervous at the prospect. Whatever your child’s reaction to this milestone, this is a great opportunity to reinforce the importance of excellent oral hygiene.
How to Floss
Pull out 2 feet of floss & wrap the ends snugly around the pointer fingers
Hold the floss taut with about 6 inches of floss between the fingers
Press it between each tooth, scraping against the sides of the teeth
Rinse and spit!
How can you help your child continue to care for their teeth properly, even when they may be losing them? Encourage them to continue brushing at least twice per day. If they are reluctant or noncompliant, some parents find that positive reinforcement helps. One idea is to make a weekly chart that is marked with a star or smiley sticker each time they successfully brush and floss. Together, you can discuss a suitable reward to earn. Mark the loss of a tooth with money or a small surprise, particularly if your child is squeamish about the prospect.
“At Halloween I would tell my kids they could have all the candy they wanted….as long as they brushed after every piece. Amazing how little candy they wanted after that rule. ” – Janet, of The Empty Nest
Limit eating and drinking between meals, especially sugary snacks. Cavities are caused when bacteria feed off the sugar and other nutrients in foods that remain in the mouth. That’s why rinsing the mouth after snacking is a great idea. Remember that even breath mints and sugary gum that are kept in the mouth for a long period of time can lead to tooth decay. Maintain a regular schedule of dental appointments.
“I use the “count to 20” rule of thumb. I have them start on the upper left, count to 20, move to the lower left, count to 20, upper right, lower right, and then the important teeth that show in the front, count to 20. As a homeschool mom, a bonus to this method is that my kids could count to 20 before kindergarten. :) I have to admit that they have perfected the art of “speed counting” to get the job done more quickly… We’re big on twice-yearly cleanings at the dentist. The dentist usually does a good job of telling them the importance of flossing and proper brushing to avoid the dreaded cavity. And a large man in a white lab coat comes closer to getting their attention than I would… They know that part of their morning chores is to brush after breakfast, and they must brush before bedtime. I make it a point to hover nearby so that I can threaten, er, um, I mean encourage them to get the job done right. ” – DeeDee, of Fiddledeedee
You can also ask the dentist about sealants and fluoride treatments, both of which can help prevent cavities. In general, sealants and topical fluoride treatments are considered excellent forms of preventive dental medicine. Dental sealants are made of a tooth-colored plastic material, which is painted onto the chewing surface of the back teeth. It hardens within seconds and seals out plaque and food to guard against cavities. Because the back teeth are more likely to suffer decay, the sealant is usually painted on the 6-year and 12-year molars. Another way to help protect the teeth is the topical administration of fluoride. Generally, these treatments are given annually to children under 14, and they help strengthen teeth by hardening the outer enamel.
What if your child has a disability? Does this have any bearing on oral health? Children and teens with special needs are more susceptible to tooth decay and other dental problems. In part, this is because physical and mental disabilities may make it more difficult for a
child with special needs to maintain an effective oral health regimen. Furthermore, your special needs child may have physical abnormalities that contribute to gum disease and tooth decay. Some medications may even lead to dental health problems. For this reason, it is more important than ever that you ensure that your disabled child receive ongoing dental care throughout childhood and the teen years.
Permanent Teeth – Caring for Teeth That Will Last
Now that some or all of your child’s permanent teeth have come in, maintaining their good health is vital. When treated properly, they can last a lifetime. In addition, healthy teeth are one of the best ways to make a positive first impression. As your child grows into young adulthood and becomes more focused on their appearance, this fact might become an important motivator. In many cases, you and your dentist may have already begun to discuss orthodontics. Should your child get braces? When?
How much will braces cost?
Precisely when your child should see a specialist about braces depends on the individual situation. However, according to the
American Association of Orthodontists, most children should see an orthodontist by the time they are 7 years old. This is because early intervention often makes treatment much easier. In some cases, an orthodontist can use a treatment strategy on a younger child that would be impossible on an older one whose jaw and facial growth has been completed. You don’t need to wait until all of your child’s permanent teeth have come in. These factors would make early orthodontic care particularly helpful:
Problems biting or chewing
Early or late tooth loss
Crowded or misaligned teeth
Jaws that make sounds or shift
Jaws that are too far forward or back
Contrary to popular opinion, braces are not just superfluous cosmetic interventions. Early and effective orthodontia can cure problems with biting, chewing and alignment that could otherwise plague your child throughout their life. In many cases, these interventions reduce the likelihood of chronic tooth decay and can actually promote your child’s overall health throughout adulthood and their elder years. Pretty smiles are just a perk!
How to Use Mouthwash
Look for an alcohol-free mouthwash
Measure the recommended amount on the bottle and swish
Make sure to swish in all areas of the mouth
Spit after the allotted time, and only rinse if instructed on the bottle
What are the main types of braces your child might get? Silver or stainless steel archwires and brackets are the most commonly used type of braces. As treatment progresses, the wire thickness changes. If your child is allergic to the standard metal braces or just wants to make a bold statement, your orthodontist might recommend real gold braces. Less-flashy titanium braces are sometimes prescribed for people who cannot tolerate the standard metal ones. Another alternative is clear or white braces, which are made out of ceramic and are much less noticeable. If none of these treatments are acceptable, lingual braces can be placed behind the teeth to be less obtrusive. Generally, these are used more for adults.
As all parents know, orthodontia is an investment in every sense, not only in the good health of your child, but financially. Making generalizations about the price of braces is difficult, since many factors are involved.
Where you live, the extent of the treatment and the nature of your dental coverage all figure into the equation, but you can probably expect to pay at least $3,000 and as much as $10,000 in total. Fortunately,
orthodontists understand that most families are unable to pay all at once and provide various financing options.
If you’re going to make such a large investment, it’s important to make sure you feel good about the orthodontist you choose. Start with friends and family, and be sure to ask your dentist whom they trust the most. Having input from multiple sources, especially an oral health professional, can help you narrow down whether the orthodontist is really good or if someone just happened to have a good experience with a bad orthodontist. Ask people you know and trust about their orthodontists.
Be sure to get as many details as possible. Your dentist is also an excellent resource. Chances are your child’s dentist probably refers patients to one or two specialists on a regular basis. Make sure your insurance company accepts the orthodontist you pick. Once you find someone you like, be sure to ask if the orthodontist has received an orthodontic degree from an accredited institution. Contact the American Association of Orthodontists to do a credential check. Many orthodontists offer a free consultation. Take advantage of this by writing down your questions in advance. Remember, you will be working closely with this person for several years, so it is essential that you and your child have a good rapport with them.
While this process may seem time-consuming, it has its rewards. You and your child will end up in the care of someone you like and trust who answers your questions in a way you understand. Considering the investment you will be making, you’ll be glad you took the time to make the right choice.
Teenagers – Encouraging Healthy Behavior in Your Teenager
And you thought the toddler years were bad! How do you continue to encourage your sometimes-child, sometimes-adult to maintain the good oral health habits you have tried to instill? Some answers are obvious: encourage regular brushing and flossing, continue to discourage snacking on sugary foods and don’t let your teen’s busy schedule get in the way of twice-yearly dental appointments. Beyond the obvious, there are some lesser-known factors that can impact your teen’s dental well-being.
Oral piercing is often a contested topic between parent and teen. Whether you’re a fan of tongue and lip piercing or not, the American Dental Association has conducted studies that found that wearing mouth jewelry even for a limited time can cause permanent gum deformities that could lead ultimately to tooth loss. The ongoing contact between the jewelry and your teen’s gums has been found to lead to receding gums, chipped or broken teeth and nerve damage or inflammation at the site of the piercing. It could even lead to periodontitis, a disease of the supporting structures in the mouth, which means that the inner layer of the gum and bone pulls away from the teeth, forming pockets and leading to loose or lost teeth.
Many teens are very active in sports, and moms often wonder about
mouth guards. Are they effective? How can I choose the right one for my teenager? There is no doubt that the right mouth guard can protect athletes from painful and costly oral and facial injuries. The American Dental Association estimates that mouth guards prevent approximately 200,000 injuries each year in high school and college football alone. Unfortunately, obtaining the right mouth guard is not as easy as going to your local sporting goods store and spending a few dollars. For maximum effectiveness, you need to find one that is tasteless, odorless, tear resistant, comfortable, resilient and that causes minimal interference to speech and breathing. It must also fit properly and be the correct thickness. Your child’s dentist or a sports physician will best be able to prescribe and recommend a slightly more costly but effective custom-made model.
“My children are older and I still remind them to see a dentist every year and to be sure to floss…floss..floss! I also made sure they had dental insurance so they were more likely to take care of any problems. ” – Janet, of The Empty Nest
The issue of bad breath is disturbing to virtually anyone, but particularly to self-conscious teens who may be ultra-focused on the image they portray. Also known as
halitosis, bad breath can be caused by an array of things:
Poor oral hygiene
Bacteria on the tongue
In addition, certain lifestyle choices can be the culprit. These include smoking and eating disorders. As difficult as it often can be, keeping the lines of communication between you and your teen open can help you get to the bottom of what is causing their bad breath. In more extreme cases such as eating disorders, your love, support and intervention will be of paramount importance. And, as unpleasant as your teen’s halitosis may be, taking heed could enable you to save your child’s life.
wisdom teeth often become an issue of concern for people in their late teens. Should they be removed? When? This is by no means a simple question and, as with most such inquiries, it is best to consult your teen’s dentist. After all, they have access to the X-ray images showing your teen’s particular teeth and jaw structure. In general, conventional wisdom is that it’s far easier to have these third molars removed when a person is young and healthy, before the impacted or malpositioned teeth have a chance to cause decay or problems with adjacent teeth. The decision is a financial one as well as a practical one. Ask yourself if you can afford the operation. Is your teenager in pain? Does your dentist strongly recommend surgery? Why?
Don’t be afraid to ask questions until you are satisfied with the answers. If in doubt, get a second opinion.
A Healthy Start
Before you even felt your baby move inside you, their teeth were beginning to form. From that point on, you have an important role in teaching them about excellent dental health. As overwhelming as it may seem at times, your care and conscientious attention from a young age will make a huge difference throughout your child’s entire life. No longer is it assumed that older people will need dentures. The foundation of care that you and your child build today will, in all likelihood, enable them to have full use of their teeth for as long as they live.
Teeth are an incredibly important asset, and if they are taken care of, they can last a lifetime. If you start developing healthy habits in your children now, they will already be on the right track to taking care of those important pearly whites.
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I never thought of this thank you so much for this idea! It’s going to be a great Halloween!
It is very important that we teach our kids about good dental hygiene especially the very basic one which is to brush teeth three times a day or after eating and why to brush our teeth. Yes, you are right teaching them how to do it and why they must do it can be effective in encouraging them.
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I love that it breaks down issues by age. I have an almost 4 year old and soon to be newborn. It’s great to be able to find practical information about how to care for my 2 kids teeth all in one place!
Great share! I really enjoyed and I’m sure it will help many moms with caring for their child’s teeth.
I’m totally adopting the Halloween candy rule with my kids! It gives them a lot of freedom AND a lot of responsibility!
I like that rule too! Of course, candy doesn’t even taste good after you’ve brushed your teeth. This guide gives a lot of great tips.